I work in the field of social work and I work with many young woman dealing with different issues in their lives. It's interesting how many of them have a hard time being connected to what they really want. So many woman today are too concerned with pleasing everyone and reading other people's minds. In return they loose focus on what they need, what's healthy. They have a tough time making decisions, big or small. They are disconnected from themselves. It is good to be in-tune to other's needs, but don't loose connection with your own. Don't sacrifice your needs, standards, boundaries to please others. If you have a problem with this, try starting with making basic simple decisions everyday. It might be hard and you will probably make mistakes but this will help you to be more decisive on the big choices too.
Are you indecisive?